Reader Question:
Hi David,
I’m 60 yrs old, very healthier, very active, and a tremendously wonderful girl. I got a really cool relationship for over three decades. We joined up with Match.com as soon as I separated, had a couple of dates (they were terrible), immediately after which one popped up. You will find dated him on and off for 2 many years. The guy told me he enjoys myself, but he disappears all the time. We see him for one or two times, and then he is gone for just two to 3 weeks. He had been hitched for 30 years and has three young ones (exactly like me personally) and states he’s got commitment issues and it is witnessing a therapist about this. His wife cheated on him in which he features medication and alcohol problems.
Should I consider this guy is toxic? If the guy contacts myself once again (which I believe he’ll), must I make sure he understands never to get in touch with me personally any longer, or must I simply tell him i like getting with him but are making my options ready to accept time other individuals?
-Nancy (California)
David Wygant’s Answer:
Should you take into account this person toxic? No.
I’d start thinking about him become a booty telephone call.
That is all he or she is. He’s a booty phone call.
He does not want to devote. He is creating plenty of excuses, yet somehow the guy loves to arrive over and fool around.
When a person really does that, all he’s doing is using you as an intimate partner.
Confront him about it if you want, but a person like him makes right up some type of tale never to be take off intimately.
Therefore move ahead and discover somebody who warrants you.
The full time you have been wasting considering him and being with him is actually time you may be satisfying a unique guy.
Enjoy the process!
David
